People with body and vaginal odour. There is no soft landing for this people, body odour will kill whatever sexual chemistry exists in a relationship.
This is not a male or female problem, this is a human problem so I won't point fingers to any gender. You can try to cover it up in defence, you can say the sweat will make things slide, it won't change the truth of it. Sweat, along with it, body odour, will disconnect the connection.
It is however, more important for a lady to be able to deal with this as most times, their body types means more heat generated and trapped. As women are usually associated with all things good including hygiene and smell, it means the bar of expectation is usually set very high in this department so what you think is just a minor thing is flagging like you cannot imagine. Ask those around you, body odour is one of the top reasons to leave a girl alone. If it crosses this bridge, it is one of the top reasons to hate intercourse with her. Luckily for men, ladies know this (and those who don't know eventually get told).
In the home, for different reasons at different periods (no pun intended), a woman can develop smells which previously were not there. This, the woman may not know but if as a man you do not mention it, how then will it be resolved?
This is where there is trouble.....how do you say it? (we suddenly become too responsible and Godly to utter the words)
"Emmm Darling, and there's something I want to tell you o but I don't know ooo......maybe later"................and that's the end.
For ladies whose experience is with partners that have body odour, there are nice ways to go about it. You can take the action into the bathroom (at least there you must run water), you can role play (and make sure your role involves you spraying perfume "randomly"), you can start it with a dressed dinner where you suggest he takes a shower first, or you can just tell him. See? women have it easier.
Okay, back to the ladies and how to tell them. Hmmmm.....maybe open a page on it and decide to read it with her (If she decodes, that's your food for the month gone), you can also try the role play where you are the one holding the perfume bottle but women are so sensitive, this can also be termed treason.
Eventually, we all need to go back to basics on this one, the ability of a couple to have important conversations such as this one without it getting blown up. Home remedies include apple cider vinegar, baking soda and yes yoghurt ! but first, you need to speak with a health practitioner on this. I know it's embarrassing but sometimes, it is not enough to use google. Moreover, doctors know because they are trained humans who experience it too.
Save yourself, help yourself.....and forgive your partner (those serving life bans for speaking up) **Determined**
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