Lol. Currently am watching a seasonal movie and this girl here wants to kill herself with dieting thinking it will make the guy she's in love with look her way and become attractive to him. It got to a point she fainted and was hospitalised. People actually kill to make themselves attractive and it is not only in Nigeria. It is everywhere.
They are sizes of people that they hate about themselves but i actually like my size but if i need some adjustment i just work out for better result.
@Wonders: You're absolutely right. It's the intent and not even the action that matter the most. Yes, you might want to loss weight or add more weight, the action is in itself not bad, it's the intent that can disqualify the action. If it's because, you feel insecure or you think you'd be more attractive for that girl or guy, then there's a big problem. And if in trying to be another size it begins to greatly affect your health and lifestyle in a negative way, then there's also problem. If for instance, you develop ulcer all in the name of dieting to lose weight, then that's absolutely wrong. Or you disfigure your shape and have excessive fat all in the name of gaining extra weight, then there's a problem.
@holashayo:transformation is most common in the abroad, from a either a slim person to a fat person or either from fat to slim, God did his work perfectly in creating us as his own image.you can see in the abroad, transformation from normal size of their butt to a bigger one or their breast all this act provoke God,even addition of finger nails,you were given a normal one from above people intend adding another one that makes them look like witch,also God gave women hair to cover their glory, they intend adding excess known as attachment that makes them look like another thing else. In this our generation it provokes God honestly because even the manhood, you see a man transform to a woman in other to produce child. Which is enough for God to clear this generation. As we are we must thank God for how he created us.
This is truly a world wide problem. Only a bold and contented person ,whether fat or slim can be confident of his/her stature.
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First things first I would like you to know that.
Being fat is being unhealthy.
When a person is fat, he's prone or vunerable to series of health issues.
Health issues like heart problems, obesity, diabetes etc.
Rather than being so comfortable with being fat, the best you can do is to work on your self.
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In the life we are in, nothing except Jesus is perfect, no one is perfect or the ideas person. Every one some things about that is not really nice. So knowing that I don't think you should be ashamed of your body or size cause it doesn't matter. So be confident in your self
@Joyodishika247:when a person is fat, it matters a lot because being fat is not healthy.
Those that are fat are prone to diabetes.
Aside diabetes, they are also prone to high blood pressure as well as other heart problems.
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@Wonders:when you are trying to burn fats.
It is advisable you burn fat the natural way rather than the artificial way of plastic surgery.
There has been series of report of Side effects from plastic surgery used to remove fat.
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You are very right, all of these surgeries side effects are not good at all, is it when you are trying to get rid of some fat or when you are trying to get some flesh. I have heard it not once or twice from celebrities that did plastic surgery on their hips or other part of their body that they regretted it. Nengi said it in Big brother house and so many of them said so that they regretted it at the end of the day. The best thing is to be happy with whatever God has blessed you with. Even if you have to make some changes, make sure you are playing safe.
I will have to stay at home without going to school this year till maybe October and the normal thing is that I will gain much weight but because I don't like having plenty fat on my body, I have been careful of the amount of food I eat but lately I realised my dieting is too much so am backing to increasing the amount of food I eat so I don't get to have ulcer or some other sickness. I feel that is how we should try to maintain we look every time. We should make sure we apply self control to whatsoever we are doing.
If you're judging your own body and trying to make it look the way it will fit societal standards, then you'll forever be changing your body till there's nothing left to be changed. Nothing and I mean nothing can satisfy the society. You may be thin and talk and be all Victoria's secret model look alike but the society will still find a way to make you feel inadequate. They'll tell you, you need to put some meat on those bones and then when you do that, they'll be the ones to tell you that you gained weight and that's not nice. When you are thick and they tell you to lose weight and you do, they'll tell you that you look too skinny and then they'll ask if you're sick and even offer to give you a meal plan to stick to to gain weight. Be confident in the way you look. Own it. If you're going to lose weight or gain weight, let it be because it is what you want and not to please anyone. It's your body.
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One thing you should know is that different regions of the world have their own beauty standards. Here in Nigeria am most of Africa, the society tends to favor those who are thick and had a bit of flesh on them. Apparently here, you have to be just the right amount of thick though. Not too fat and not too slim. Just the right and perfect amount. Just imagine that.
In the western part of the world, they want to be slim and tall and well toned so they will be able to wear a bikini without having to show flab or love handles. That is actually healthy though. Having a toned body. It means you're either eating right or you're exercising well. But it doesn't change the fact that if you don't want to look like that you don't need to do it for anyone. You can eat right without looking twig thin. That's one thing you should know. It's your body. As long as you take care of it, you'll be fine. Love yourself, love your size, love who you are. No one has to dictate anything for you. Remember that.
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I totally agree
God who made you,he made you with a reason
Just because most women want to be accepted and regarded as hot babes, they go extra miles to do that.
They take series of tea and medications in the name of getting slim and we'll shaped.
Some women eventually go for operations where their fat is removed from their body, Which leads to loss of lives in some cases.
Learn to appreciate how you're created no matter who you are.
If anyone feels you're not good enough that means that person is not the right person for you.
Yeah I totally agree with you. It is best to love your self than to impress others. Obviously we are not born or made perfect. And we are unique in our own making. So persons are slim, some are chubby and some are moderate. Some times, persons who we think that are perfect such as the moderate persons who are either not too fat nor slim, sometimes craves to be slim too. Also fat or chubby too craves to be slim too and likewise the slim persons.