Romance » Ask for what you want. by: Faith2015(m) .:. Tue, 23 Dec, 2014 - 02:03:50:pm GMT

Let your partner know that you are deeply interested in spending some romantic time with them you would be surprised by how often they are unaware of this. Whining, demanding, and manipulating are contrary to creating romance, so do your best to ask using kind and loving words.

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Re: Ask for what you want. by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Mon, 15 Apr, 2019 - 08:47:22:pm GMT

There's a problem so common among some couples. They find it hard to ask their partner for sex. Should you actually be shy to ask your partner for sex? And if you don't ask and make a step towards your desire, how will your partner know you are in need of sex.

Make your partner know what you want. Let your partner know you truly want her. Don't be shy. Sex is free in marriage and permitted. You should be free with your partner to be able to tell him/ her your mind.

Sex is not something you should hide when you need it. And you should make step towards it. Don't burn yourself with shame and yet you need that thing.

I hear some couples say, "he does not satisfy me?" Did you tell him that you need him more. Did you make him know you are not yet satisfied with him. Why should you keep to yourself, once he lays back to bed, you feel bad cause you are not satisfied sexually. You are the problem to yourself and you need to work on yourself. Stop screaming on social medias for help when you are yet to do the right thing.


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Re: Ask for what you want. by: AJESTY(f) .:. Tue, 14 May, 2019 - 02:36:15:pm GMT

Sometimes we assume our partners should know what we actually want from them. But it shouldn't be so. They are not magicians so they don't actually know what we really want at a particular point in time.

Like for instance if you want ur partner to be romantic with you.all you have to do is to ask or better still set it in motion you don't have to feel shy when you are with your partner . Thats why you both choose each other. U have to feel free and talk about almost everything with your partner.

Assumptions they says kills,u don't have to assume your partner is suppose to know what u need.if u don't ask how is he/she suppose to know, thats what also brings about misunderstanding in a relationship because we don't communicate well enough with our partners,we jst assumed they know what we want.

**Courageous **

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Re: Ask for what you want. by: Obinnaoguji(m) .:. Thu, 16 May, 2019 - 12:05:37:pm GMT

There are so many ways to kill a rat. Most time going about asking may be a waste of time as there are many ways to communicate without sounding stupid. Research has shown that body language in addition to your ability to communicate effectively go hand in hand in helping us achieve whatever it is we want to.
**Obinna Oguji**

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Re: Ask for what you want. by: Velisa(f) .:. Mon, 20 May, 2019 - 06:24:53:am GMT

I don't know why someone should be afraid of asking what you want from your partner. It shouldn't be.

Let it out guy... Babe let that thing out.

He won't kill you even if he's not interested. You just have to be open up to your partner. She won't do the same if you tell her out.

You don't know if your partner too is having the same thing on mind but also afraid to say it.

Come on, he's your partner. You should be free with your partner.

This is so common among the ladies. Whenever they need something. They find it difficult to tell the guy.

I know this very well cause same thing happens to me. It mustn't always be sex. It could be just a romance. Just let it out.


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Re: Ask for what you want. by: Piwizo(m) .:. Wed, 22 May, 2019 - 03:52:41:pm GMT

I find this mostly common in men, most of them don't really know how to ask from something they are in need of from their spouse, girlfriends or partner. They want the partner to assume things for them, to always know when they are in the mood, horny or in need of sex, but it doesn't work like that, what keeps a relationship in this jet age is communication, it still remains key in getting your heart desires and need.

A lie told a thousand times doesn't make it true, and one of the lie some men normally tell themselves is that, the lady should be more romantic and have the sweet and lovely words all the time, but that's not true, as one of the thing a lady needs is attention, and one of the way you can show a lady attention is by being romantic

I have always believe pride to be the downfall of every relationship, men should learn to be free with their partner, so let her be alone, those little little gestures matters alot, send her text messages when she's at work, call her and tell her how much you miss her, if possible before she close from work be there to pilot her home, take her out, spend beautiful moments together, create that bond that's inseparable and make her feel your presence.

The reason why all these are important is because, you are creating an atmosphere where it would be possible for you to ask her anything you want, and most importantly you are ninety nine percent sure you wont get turned down, because you have paid your dues and did the needful, so men change the approach and you will enjoy your relationship better


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Re: Ask for what you want. by: Fellybabe(f) .:. Fri, 14 Jun, 2019 - 06:34:35:am GMT

Well,it's a good thing to ask your partner for sex or some romantic time. But know when to ask.

Imagine your partner had a very hectic day and was very tired. Instead of you allowing him or her sleep, you are demanding for sex.

Is sex food? Must you eat it all the time? Must it be every evening? Allow the person rest.

At least you are always together... You can ask another day.

Some people may get mad at you for asking sex when you know how tired and stressed out they are.

Especially the men, if you ask them for sex after a very hectic and bitter day, they might get angry at you.

Or you ask for some romantic time.

Please, make sure you ask anything you want at the right time.

**God's light**

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Re: Ask for what you want. by: Confidant(f) .:. Tue, 09 Jul, 2019 - 04:40:59:pm GMT

Most women are always embarrassed to ask their man for money or for something they need, always embarrassed. They would rather soak up their challenges secretly or look for help elsewhere than going to him to ask for some help, even when she knows that he has the capacity to handle it, they don't just feel right about it, especially for women with an independently 'I should take care of myself' mentality. And the problem is not lack of courage or pride, the challenge is that they feel responsible for themselves, and more than anything else they hate that you might feel buggy.

The closest thing they try to do is get help somewhere else, even when those alternative sources are the most unlikely to be responsive she will still prefer to take that chance than ask you for anything.

She expects you to figure out that something is not right. She just expects you to read her body language and her moods. She expects you to read the words in her silence, but when you ask her 'how are you?' The next thing that follows is 'have you eaten?', and that's all, you don't go beyond that point.

Get this guys, as a man there is just no way you can be comfortable that your partner is not asking you for anything, there is just no way you can be at peace with yourself, it should itch your soul. You are working and earning a salary but for 3 months you have not bought her anything, it's bad honestly, even if your budget is tight, even if you are saving to buy world bank, 2months is enough to stop by the store and get her a nice pair of jeans or some tops, a fancy hair ribbon won't put your savings in recession, it just the little things we do.

Most of us are just relaxed over the fact that she works and can take care of herself, yes she can, but even as the director of central bank she is also a woman, and as a woman she has needs that only a man can satisfy.

Dont wait for her to come asking you for little things, just as grown women always feel embarrassed to ask, grown men also feel embarrassed when their woman come asking for money and some common things they need, they just use their common sense to know that he is responsible for someone according to his capacity. Grown men ask what she needs, they don't wait to be asked. If this is you uncle please start using your common sense, start by showing concern with questions like

"Baby, I have a free budget for April, is there anything you need that you want me to make a budget for?"

"Love, i know you need money for your project, I will cover your tithe for this month so you can add that 10% to what you have saved up, alright?"

"Bae, I told your friend that makes female shoes to make one for you, I paid already, just let her the design you like."

Or sometimes just send her some cash and ask her to keep it for you, we both know she understands what you're trying to do.

These little things are the foundation blocks of a relationship and marriage. Most brothers don't even have the account details of their partner, and they have been doing relationship for over a year. Some cannot remember the last time they bought airtime credit for their partner, it's that bad. Love is not free, the price is responsibility.


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