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Politics » Are you impacting your friends? by: Ninoevans(m) .:. Thu, 17 Dec, 2020 - 04:59:59:am GMT
You don't have to love me but we must learn to coexist. Peace is a virtue that nourishes the body and soul. Shun all forms of ethnicity, religious bigotry, racism and other forms of discrimination as they are all social constructs. Humanity is about forgiveness and empathy for one another. The youth must not live the mistakes of their ancestors rather they must reflect the positive side of our ever dynamic world.

Man is a social being and as a result have a constant desire for companionship and friendship. In seeking for a friend, one must be careful to ensure that you make friends with those that can be of great impact to you. For me, I always ask myself of how I can impact my friends before looking out to see if they are reciprocating it. Don't expect what you don't give, and if at all you get what you don't deserve, it won't last long. I appreciate the friends in my life that has been part of the journey, we are growing and the hunger to be better will never cease..

Are you impacting your friends?


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Re: Are you impacting your friends? by: Gbasky(m) .:. Thu, 17 Dec, 2020 - 08:49:43:am GMT

Yes, I am. Impacting has been what I have been doing subconsciously to people ever since I was young, I didn't know I was impacting people's lives, ignorantly, I thought I was just doing the norms.
I am this very selective person, I choose the kind of clothe I wear, I choose the kind of food I eat and so I choose the kind of friends I keep. People often see me more than how I even see myself, they believe I am one kind of old and matured man due to the kind of company I keep. Truthfully, I do almost everything with married men and married women, so they accord me the same level of respect they will give a married person. That is the simple truth, the kind of people you keep will determine how much respect you earn from other people, now having those kind of people all around me, you can bet I tend to learn and gain a lot from them. Before now, I don't see what's so fun in making friends with people that are older than you and especially have a different relationship status from you, but the moment I got my interest in marriage and relationship view, I started mingling with the already experienced and I must tell you, it has been so rewarding and benefiting.
They impact my life positively, changed my mindset about certain things, made me realize my worth and value, even without them knowing or without them saying anything to me, I have learnt a lot from their marriages. 
It is just factually funny that what you do to people will also be done to you, one way or another. I was talking about impacting people earlier, yes I did impacted people's lives and probably that is why other people's lives has also had great impact on mine. 
Some of the people I come across in my life, some of the people we started growing up together, some of the people we do work related things together and others, I made sure I added something to their life. I use to say something to people that, you can't walk with me and don't gain anything. I am not talking about monetary aspect now, intelligent wise, in decision making among others have I contributed to them. 
When you have a friend that doesn't make any positive impact on you and vice versa, you completely do away with such relationship because it has no cause and purpose. Make impact on people as much as people make impact on you.

**HGP**


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Re: Are you impacting your friends? by: Flat(m) .:. Fri, 18 Dec, 2020 - 02:46:31:pm GMT

Hmmm! Impacting of life; in as much as we are saying we are impacting life, I don’t think it is we that is in position to determine if we are actually impacting life’s but rather those we claim we impact are the one in position to actually determine if their life’s is impacted through us. The reason why am saying this is that, we might actually think we are impacting life’s but at the end of the day we would see that no life is being impacted at all and this is mostly as a result of the fact that we are not actually dishing out the need of the people that we are impacting or that we want to impact. Now, when we say our life’s is impacting, it simply means we are making an influence which could be positive or negative. The truth is that the act of making an impact is not limited to money but rather it is based on the ability to recognise what the need is at that moment. So, this simply tells us that we can impact life through money, we can impact life through our knowledge or life experiences which most times I found to be the best way to impact life with. Some prefer you impact them with money rather with knowledge or your life experiences.
You see, to me, I might not have any money to give out but with the little knowledge that I have draw from other people, I have been able to use it for people also. So, when it comes to me impacting life’s, the first thing I do is to fix out what the need of that person is exactly, so that I won’t be wasting my time when he/she needs money and am giving out knowledge, that will tantamount to me not doing anything. And again, I ensure that I don’t force things on people, most importantly, trying to make sure that they do exactly what I tell them; after saying my own, I leave them to their discretion, it is left to them to then decide if they want to follow truly or not.


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Re: Are you impacting your friends? by: Ninoevans(m) .:. Sat, 19 Dec, 2020 - 03:44:50:am GMT


@Flat:

If you don't know the needs of wants of your friend, then that person is not your friend. We are talking about our friends that we relate with regularly and share our time with. These are the people we need to impact and ensure that we have a circle of quality friends.

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Re: Are you impacting your friends? by: Flat(m) .:. Sun, 20 Dec, 2020 - 11:35:26:am GMT


@Ninoevans:

I clearly understand the point you are giving here but I need you to understand that we have different set of people in terms of their inner way of life. Some people are introvert while some are extrovert; it will be very easier for me if my friend is an extrovert because I can actually know what he/she needs and how I can play my quota but in a situation whereby my friend is an introvert, it will be very much difficult for me to really know what the person’s need is because he/she does not open up. Fine, you might say that even if the person is introvert, since the person is my friend, I need to know how I can talk to my friend to actually know what he/she want but you know you can’t force people to talk when they don’t. So, I act based on the available information giving to me and thereby taking the appropriate steps at the right time. So, when it comes to impacting life’s, in as much as it is a good thing to do, one must be careful very well in order not to really talk wrongly. Sincerely, most of the time I tried as much as possible to talk it out if one eventually say what they are going through. 
So, if my friend fails to recognise on its own part that he/she need help, how then do I come in; always remembered that problem shared is either halfway solved or fully solved. But at the same time, I do call their attention to it in the case of the person not noticing it but if the person then decides not to concur to that, then my hands are up. Living a impactful life is a good one and here on my side half always been doing the little within my reach.


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Re: Are you impacting your friends? by: Flat(m) .:. Sun, 20 Dec, 2020 - 11:35:26:am GMT


@Ninoevans:

I clearly understand the point you are giving here but I need you to understand that we have different set of people in terms of their inner way of life. Some people are introvert while some are extrovert; it will be very easier for me if my friend is an extrovert because I can actually know what he/she needs and how I can play my quota but in a situation whereby my friend is an introvert, it will be very much difficult for me to really know what the person’s need is because he/she does not open up. Fine, you might say that even if the person is introvert, since the person is my friend, I need to know how I can talk to my friend to actually know what he/she want but you know you can’t force people to talk when they don’t. So, I act based on the available information giving to me and thereby taking the appropriate steps at the right time. So, when it comes to impacting life’s, in as much as it is a good thing to do, one must be careful very well in order not to really talk wrongly. Sincerely, most of the time I tried as much as possible to talk it out if one eventually say what they are going through. 
So, if my friend fails to recognise on its own part that he/she need help, how then do I come in; always remembered that problem shared is either halfway solved or fully solved. But at the same time, I do call their attention to it in the case of the person not noticing it but if the person then decides not to concur to that, then my hands are up. Living a impactful life is a good one and here on my side half always been doing the little within my reach.


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Re: Are you impacting your friends? by: Abbey(m) .:. Tue, 07 Sep, 2021 - 10:50:25:am GMT

We deal with different types of people and every one has the right to do whatever they won't environmental factors are the easiest common way to impact on another person .

Society is a place where people live together well said friends are always sometimes more contribute to someone life that is a good friend not the bad one.

Creating a social work around the community such as providing adequate training for the youth ,impacting knowledge on each individual.
You also should serve as a moral to them they must see the ability in you as someone who is good enough to follow his steps.
**Abbey **


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