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Diaries » Advice for some wayward young girls by: SamuelKingsley93(m) .:. Mon, 13 Mar, 2023 - 03:29:13:pm GMT

Is it that you girls enjoy this depression shit or what? If you need money, go and work or start a business. Obviously, you will sha still be depressed at the beginning because of the shege you will see. You will just use your data and go to tiktok and look one depressing videos and quotes to inflict pain on yourself, Sometimes you guys don't just realize that you are just being stupid, truth be told many of you are not even up to the age of being in a relationship but society has made it look like an achievement which is not.

There are thousands of job vacancies here in Yenagoa, because you have an iPhone which one boy gifted you with, you feel you've arrived and can't work, my dear, you need to meet a doctor for real. The funny part is that you're not even from a rich home, no inheritance for you, all you could think of is jump from one relationship to the other, until you add value to a man's life, he will not value you, some of you guys, book kuku no dey enter head.

You better quit that relationship and think of ways to better your life.

**Samuel Kingsley**

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Re: Advice for some wayward young girls by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Wed, 15 Mar, 2023 - 09:37:51:am GMT

Hmm!!! It is disheartening seeing the character some of the girls in our generation are exhibiting and the most painful part is that there are a lot of seminars, messages, and conferences for girls, and all these are just to raise them to become better women yet there are no changes.

It is just like what you said that most of these girls don't come from rich backgrounds and some don't even have any inheritance for them but yet they feel relaxed and keep on chopping life without thinking about what tomorrow holds for them. You will see and hear some strange things girls are doing just to live an extravagant lifestyle and because they want to be tagged as "big girls".

My advice to every young lady is that there's dignity in labor Therefore, find a job and start doing something even if the money is small; At least it will give you a good reputation and it won't risk your life.

**Always put God first **

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Re: Advice for some wayward young girls by: Obajichi(f) .:. Wed, 29 Mar, 2023 - 03:49:54:pm GMT

It's a pity that some of these girls still believe they can make it that way.

Sometimes, I wonder where they get that orientation from.

I tell my students that the real big boys and big girls are the ones who make the right decisions, who fend for themselves decently and who can afford to do things right.

All these confused and wayward girls and even guys should take a cue from them .
**I love being me.**

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