Family/Parenting » ADVICES TO ALL MEN WHOSE WIVES ARE PREGNANT by: Donchex(m) .:. Fri, 15 Feb, 2019 - 07:42:08:am GMT
I am a man but today I want to discuss a pregnancy.... Do you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant actually contributes to the state of health of the mother and unborn child? Listen, It bothers me a lot when I see men showing no concern to their pregnant wife or fall to adjust to some temporary changes!!! It's just 9months, not like it's forever . Pregnancy is not bought in the market, neither is it software downloaded from the internet. It's a seed planted us men and is germinating. There has to be a carrier of that seed while it grows, and woman have been given the responsibility to carry it. Pregnancy is a preparation to welcome a new member into the family. Pregnancy is a journey fun filled, amazing, etc. Women differ in body changes. Although pregnancy makes women do certain things in common. -Once in a while she would nag -Once in a while she would request for things unimaginable. e.g She wants to eat okro and bread. -Once in a while she would get so lazy to make you your meal. -Once in a while she would want to stretch her legs on your laps. Please pardon her....Carry the baby ain't easy. Her needs may be unsatisfiable at times. The first Tri_mester of the journey can be so annoying. Like I say women differ from each other during pregnancy. -While most women are busy vomiting. -Most of them sleep like water leaf, they sleep off anywhere with the slightest chance even in the kitchen. -While most women have fever. -Most women be looking cranky and dry like Dustin powder. -While most women add up weight. -Most women appear like burnt offerings. -Some even goes round with white handkerchief spitting in it. ALL THESE ARE STIL OUR WORK..... Please tolerate this, it's beautiful afterwards. Her attitude becomes annoying,most times you can't stand her. But I get annoyed when I see men like me neglect their pregnant wife. She's not an abomination, neither is she a curse. I must say, it's not an easy journey for all. The Tri_mester is when we need to be extra patient, loving, enduring, and understanding. NOTE... 1) Always observe your wife's feet while pregnant, it swell often. Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while, it's one of the best treat women enjoy during pregnancy. 2) Ask her regularly how she feels and how the baby is. She's the carrier so she feels him/her moves. 3) Tell her how beautiful she looks during pregnancy. e.g "Honey see as the pregnancy make you fine, I will be impregnating you every month oo or even is it my child that makes you fresh like this pass normal". Even if she has grown bigger in size cause of the pregnancy, celebrate her. 4) Don't be upset if she ever wakes you up by 2am to help her massage her feet. We need to feel little of her discomfort and pain. She shouldn't carry it alone. it our baby, we need to carry it together ( I don't mean physical carriage though). 5) No rule book stop sex during pregnancy, in short it is the best sef....do it. It is not like the vagina stopped working during pregnancy. O boy continue the work that bring the pregnancy. 6) Don't be ashamed to take her out. Take her out once in a while to those lovie dovie places you used to go together. They love it. Most times I wonder what crosses the heart of men when they see their pregnant wives. Carrying a child for 9months isn't easy. I urge all men to get closer to their spouses during pregnancy because that's one of the times she needs you most.
Re: ADVICES TO ALL MEN WHOSE WIVES ARE PREGNANT by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Sat, 16 Feb, 2019 - 08:51:24:am GMT
This is one of the things that most men don't understand, a woman needs to be catered for, she's pure gold, a woman is like an incubator, whatever you give to her she multiplies it, you give her a shop she makes it a mall, give her a money for groceries she makes you a meal, give her sperm she makes you children but what we forget most time as men is how to stand by our woman when she needs us the most, you see pregnancy is a good thing it's a blessing from God, but too bad that some men abandon their wife, that's a lackadaisical attitude knowing fully well that she didn't place the pregnancy there in the womb by herself, you are not a man by making her pregnant, you are a man by caring for her when she's heavy and carrying your baby, if there's a time to be more romantic this is the time, if there's a time to be more friendly this is the time, she might start having a nauseating attitude but as a man a real man you have to understand her condition and always smile at want she does, good or bad, let her feel safe and that sense of belonging to you, nothing is more beautiful like this, she might ask you for rice and you prepare rice for her then she says she now want beans porridge, do it for her, it's your responsibility!!! She will never forget that when she finally delivers the baby of what an amazing husband you are!!!
Re: ADVICES TO ALL MEN WHOSE WIVES ARE PREGNANT by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Sun, 17 Feb, 2019 - 12:06:54:am GMT
Women in pregnancy tends to become lazy. And if not well cared for could lead them into having low blood count. It is very essential as a man to always support and help your wife during pregnancy. Though it is not advisable for a woman in pregnancy to be lazy as they need to exercise themselves a bit at times. Especially when the pregnancy is close to 7 months.
Re: ADVICES TO ALL MEN WHOSE WIVES ARE PREGNANT by: Velisa(f) .:. Tue, 12 Mar, 2019 - 03:24:45:pm GMT
I wish the men really get this. It is very important that you show more care to your wife when in pregnancy. Help her in every way you can. Some men employ house maid to help their pregnant wives knowing they aare always the busy type. They know their wives needs a helper. If you are a man and you know you can not always be there for your wife then try to employ someone who can always give her a helping hand. Of at least let their be someone there to help her. You should know as a man that the time your wife needs you most is when she is pregnant. It was your handwork as a man that got her into that condition. So, you should give every assistant you can.