Love-Stories » A New Beginning by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Mon, 22 Apr, 2019 - 12:33:21:pm GMT

Why do people always associate the word 'EX' to bad or wickedness? Being an Ex doesn't mean one was or is wicked. Do you know that everyone must pass through the 'EX' stage of life? Yes! Everybody must be an 'EX' to something if you really want to prosper or progress. You where in nursery school, you had to be an ex-pupil to be called a student.


You have to be an ex-student to be an undergraduate. You have to be an ex-undergraduate to be a graduate. You have to be an ex-graduate to be a Corper. You surely have to be an ex-Corper to move on in life. Before you became an adult u are right now, you must had passed through the stages of ex-baby, ex-boy or girl, etc. All those 'Exes' you've passed through in life makes you the better you, you are right now. Without those exes, you wouldn't had come this far.

If you are wealthy right now, you are an ex to poverty, don't look down on those that are what you were one time in your life. You are married now, you are an ex to spinsterhood or bachelorhood. You were a guard(security) in a company, now you are the C.E.O, you are surely an ex-guard to someone, so treat people under you well. Treat people you've pass your 'EX' Barton to as you wanted others treat you when you were in that position.

In Relationship, don't hate your ex, because without him or her being your ex, you wouldn't had been married or happy right now. Something must be an ex in your life for you to progress in life. Be thankful to God for every situation you find yourself. If you still hold grudges against your ex, it means you are not happy with your present, you believe your past is better than your present you don't want to progress. Forgive and forget your past Move on with your life

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Re: A New Beginning by: Piwizo(m) .:. Tue, 23 Apr, 2019 - 11:11:35:pm GMT

What brings about this ex stuff of a thing pertaining to relationship is lack of love. Our mothers and fathers in past ages don't know what is ex. Only if you are having a new generation mother like this days own. But my mother is not such a new generation woman that will say she had an ex.


There are reasons I so much emphasize on the past ages parents. Cause then... Seeing a man who is not your husband. And who is not betrothed to you is a crime on its own. You will be considered a prostitute. But nowadays you will have a guy or lady you are keeping as a fiance or fiancee and you even have the mind to have sex. I am very sure, this cab never be found in the old ages.


This old ages... When a lady is seen matured. It is the parents that will tell her to bring a man to marry her. Until you are considered matured. You can't marry. Only if you have sick headed parents who forced children at little age to marriage. You are considered and seen a woman before you are given the right to marriage.

But nowadays is just somehow... You date the person and if not the type of person you want, then you break up with the person.

Ex are not wicked but some are. Reasons I said so... Is because... Some ex don't love the person but the make every way to see that the person falls for them thereby leading to relationship and they continue just to have a taste of the partner, then after tasting the partner, they break up with her. I call such ex... Wicked people. Do t make someone fall in love with you when you very well know you don't love them.





What brings about this ex stuff of a thing pertaining to relationship is lack of love. Our mothers and fathers in past ages don't know what is ex. Only if you are having a new generation mother like this days own. But my mother is not such a new generation woman that will say she had an ex.


There are reasons I so much emphasize on the past ages parents. Cause then... Seeing a man who is not your husband. And who is not betrothed to you is a crime on its own. You will be considered a prostitute. But nowadays you will have a guy or lady you are keeping as a fiance or fiancee and you even have the mind to have sex. I am very sure, this cab never be found in the old ages.


This old ages... When a lady is seen matured. It is the parents that will tell her to bring a man to marry her. Until you are considered matured. You can't marry. Only if you have sick headed parents who forced children at little age to marriage. You are considered and seen a woman before you are given the right to marriage.

But nowadays is just somehow... You date the person and if not the type of person you want, then you break up with the person.

Ex are not wicked but some are. Reasons I said so... Is because... Some ex don't love the person but the make every way to see that the person falls for them thereby leading to relationship and they continue just to have a taste of the partner, then after tasting the partner, they break up with her. I call such ex... Wicked people. Do t make

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Re: A New Beginning by: Piwizo(m) .:. Tue, 23 Apr, 2019 - 11:12:03:pm GMT

What brings about this ex stuff of a thing pertaining to relationship is lack of love. Our mothers and fathers in past ages don't know what is ex. Only if you are having a new generation mother like this days own. But my mother is not such a new generation woman that will say she had an ex.


There are reasons I so much emphasize on the past ages parents. Cause then... Seeing a man who is not your husband. And who is not betrothed to you is a crime on its own. You will be considered a prostitute. But nowadays you will have a guy or lady you are keeping as a fiance or fiancee and you even have the mind to have sex. I am very sure, this cab never be found in the old ages.


This old ages... When a lady is seen matured. It is the parents that will tell her to bring a man to marry her. Until you are considered matured. You can't marry. Only if you have sick headed parents who forced children at little age to marriage. You are considered and seen a woman before you are given the right to marriage.

But nowadays is just somehow... You date the person and if not the type of person you want, then you break up with the person.

Ex are not wicked but some are. Reasons I said so... Is because... Some ex don't love the person but the make every way to see that the person falls for them thereby leading to relationship and they continue just to have a taste of the partner, then after tasting the partner, they break up with her. I call such ex... Wicked people. Do t make someone fall in love with you when you very well know you don't love them.





What brings about this ex stuff of a thing pertaining to relationship is lack of love. Our mothers and fathers in past ages don't know what is ex. Only if you are having a new generation mother like this days own. But my mother is not such a new generation woman that will say she had an ex.


There are reasons I so much emphasize on the past ages parents. Cause then... Seeing a man who is not your husband. And who is not betrothed to you is a crime on its own. You will be considered a prostitute. But nowadays you will have a guy or lady you are keeping as a fiance or fiancee and you even have the mind to have sex. I am very sure, this cab never be found in the old ages.


This old ages... When a lady is seen matured. It is the parents that will tell her to bring a man to marry her. Until you are considered matured. You can't marry. Only if you have sick headed parents who forced children at little age to marriage. You are considered and seen a woman before you are given the right to marriage.

But nowadays is just somehow... You date the person and if not the type of person you want, then you break up with the person.

Ex are not wicked but some are. Reasons I said so... Is because... Some ex don't love the person but the make every way to see that the person falls for them thereby leading to relationship and they continue just to have a taste of the partner, then after tasting the partner, they break up with her. I call such ex... Wicked people. Do t make

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Re: A New Beginning by: Piwizo(m) .:. Tue, 23 Apr, 2019 - 11:12:29:pm GMT

What brings about this ex stuff of a thing pertaining to relationship is lack of love. Our mothers and fathers in past ages don't know what is ex. Only if you are having a new generation mother like this days own. But my mother is not such a new generation woman that will say she had an ex.


There are reasons I so much emphasize on the past ages parents. Cause then... Seeing a man who is not your husband. And who is not betrothed to you is a crime on its own. You will be considered a prostitute. But nowadays you will have a guy or lady you are keeping as a fiance or fiancee and you even have the mind to have sex. I am very sure, this cab never be found in the old ages.


This old ages... When a lady is seen matured. It is the parents that will tell her to bring a man to marry her. Until you are considered matured. You can't marry. Only if you have sick headed parents who forced children at little age to marriage. You are considered and seen a woman before you are given the right to marriage.

But nowadays is just somehow... You date the person and if not the type of person you want, then you break up with the person.

Ex are not wicked but some are. Reasons I said so... Is because... Some ex don't love the person but the make every way to see that the person falls for them thereby leading to relationship and they continue just to have a taste of the partner, then after tasting the partner, they break up with her. I call such ex... Wicked people. Do t make someone fall in love with you when you very well know you don't love them.

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Re: A New Beginning by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Thu, 11 Jul, 2019 - 08:25:34:am GMT

Truths about ex....

1. Don't go back to an ex just because you miss the sex

2. Establish boundaries between you and your ex. It is easy to slip back to an ex due to past experiences shared. Move on completely lest you confuse and hinder your progress

3. Before you date or marry someone, find out what happened to lead to their break up with the ex lest they import the mess from their previous relationship into the one they are building with you

4. Before you get into a new relationship, make sure things between you and your ex are completely over. An undecided heart breaks other hearts

5. You don't have to keep in touch with your ex. This is because you can easily find yourself being mindful of the feelings of your ex, forgetting the feelings of your current partner. Your loyalty and responsibility is to your new found love

6. Don't keep praising your ex to your current partner

7. How you treat and talk about your ex will either make your partner very secure or very insecure

8. If you have a child/children with your ex and you two have chosen to co-parent, keep boundaries. Let your communication be based on your parenting. Your current partner will not mind if you are honest, transparent and clear on boundaries

9. If your ex is taken or you are taken, stop feeding your past emotions by telling each other "I miss you" or calling each other "Sweetheart"

10. Don't compete with your ex on who is moving on and succeeding in life better between you and your ex. This will make you lose your focus and purpose in life as you try to prove a point. Remember your life doesn't revolve around your ex

**Fearless**


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