Love-Stories » Why Girls Love Already Made Men by: Oma_maron(f) .:. Wed, 17 Apr, 2019 - 09:04:47:am GMT

Some guys do say its bad for a Lady to look for already made men, but let's ponder on this a little, while God created people differently, He created us with different mindsets and desires. For a girl to desire for an already made man, there is nothing wrong about that. We, men should stop lying that it is a must for a girl to suffer with us. For a girl to know how we started.


It is not in the Bible that a woman must suffer with a man before she enjoys. Nooo! There are women who need men who haven't arrived, so they can build their lives from the scratch together. So they can have knowledge where the wealth came from. And there are women who also need men who have already made it in life, so they won't experience suffering. Everybody's wants in life need to be respected and appreciated. If a girl doesn't want you because you've not arrived, my guy, respect her choice and move on.

There is certainly a girl who will accept you the way you are. Don't abuse, insult, or mock that girl who rejected you because of her desires and choices in life. We all have choices and desires, respect those of others. Some ladies used to start up life with a man, but that same man will leave her when he starts making it big. How will you expect that same girl to be?

Like me, I desire for my sisters and daughters to come, to marry wealthy husbands, I really believe that is the desires of all boys and men, all brothers and fathers. Why then are we angry with that girl who wants to make those our desires a reality? Anyhow you are, for sure there is one girl out there who is looking for you. Just be real, and allow the girl who doesn't need you be.

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Re: Why Girls Love Already Made Men by: Administrator(m) .:. Wed, 17 Apr, 2019 - 10:01:13:am GMT

How about you correct the grammatical errors apply the missing punctuations and formally structure the article?

This type of written piece is not helpful to a forum like this.
This site remains a free forum, and people can write in their free styles, but for those who are interested in the point system, they should consider their written work as if they are going to submit it as an exam essay as such poorly written article is unhelpful.

Please, compare the below correction to the above original piece:

Some guys do say its (it is or it's) bad for a Lady to look for already made men, but let's ponder on this a little while(coma) God created people differently(coma) He created us with different mindsets and desires. For a girl to desire for an already made man, there is nothing wrong about that. We(coma) men should stop lying that its(it is or it's) a must for a girl to suffer with us. For a girl to know how we started. Its(it is or it's) not in the Bible that a woman must suffer with a man before she enjoy(enjoys). Nooo! There are women that needs(who need) men that don't arrive yet(who haven't arrived), so they can build their life(lives) from the scratch together. So they can have knowledge where the wealth came from. And there are women that (who) also need men that (who) had(have) already made it in life, so they won't suffer(experience suffering). Everybody's wants in life need to be respected and appreciated. If a girl don't(doesn't) want you because you've not arrived, my guy(coma) respect her choice and move on. There is certainly a girl that(who) will accept you the way you are. Don't abuse, insult, or mock that girl that(who) rejected you because of her desires and choices in life. We all have choices and desires, respect that(those) of others. Some ladies used to start up life with a man, but that same man will leave her when he started(starts) making it big. How will you expect that same girl to be? Like me, I desire for my sisters and daughters to come, to marry wealthy husbands, I really believe that is the desires of all boys and men, all brothers and fathers. Why then are we angry with that girl that(who) want(wants) to make those our desires a reality? Anyhow you are, for sure there is one girl out there that(who) is looking for you. Just be real, and allow the girl that dont(who doesn't) need you be(full stop)

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Re: Why Girls Love Already Made Men by: Oma_maron(m) .:. Wed, 17 Apr, 2019 - 03:38:11:pm GMT


@Administrator: i have done wat you asked me to do, i was in a haste that is why and most times when the inspiration comes, i just want to write it down, but i have edited it properly
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Re: Why Girls Love Already Made Men by: Willidgr8t(m) .:. Sat, 20 Apr, 2019 - 09:33:59:pm GMT

It is very disheartening that most girls in this our contemporary day are too materialistic and practically obsessed with immediate and ephemeral pleasure. It very sad to note that virtually all the girls are always ready for already made men. Women who are willing to build with their men are hard to come by. This trend needless to say has engineered the high level of divorce, infidelity and whole lots of other evils in our society today .









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Re: Why Girls Love Already Made Men by: Piwizo(m) .:. Fri, 07 Jun, 2019 - 11:34:56:am GMT

I am of a different opinion to the writer, in this part of the world most especially in this jet age which we find ourselves in, girls love to go after men who are already made instead of being part of the process of making the man, for me it is very wrong for a girl to chase after already made men, there is a common saying that goes that behind every successful man is a woman, but girls of this generation aren't ready to be the success behind every successful man, they are only interested in what they can benefit from a successful man which is rather alarming.


Lets start from here, in this country taking into account the economy of the country and how things are very bad because of bad governance or whatever you may choose to attribute it to, you find out that it is very difficult to make ends meet, in the sense that times are hard, so for a man to be already made in this kind of economy there is a ninety percent chance that he already has a woman if he is a Christian or women already in his life who believed in him, if he is a Muslim.

Girls don't want to work, they come with all these shenanigans that they weren't created to suffer and how they were created to enjoy, and if you see these girls that tell you they weren't created to suffer, you will at least expect them to have something but offer but far from it they are just a bunch of empty vessels, the few that want to struggle with you are the ten percent that believe in your future as a man, those are the ones that have foresight and as the day goes by that generation is gradually winding away, that is why i can authoritatively say i don't believe in love, because now love is all about what we can benefit from a guy for a lady and that is very bad.

In life we have stages, we have the start up stage, where things aren't so rosy where all you have are just dreams and visions and plans in your head, your aspirations and goals, your visions and mission, then we have the growth stage at this stage you start putting those ideas into work, by increasing your data base, self development, going to schools, seminars and all sort just to see that your vision become a reality, the finally we have the maturity stage where the result of all your efforts is obvious and you are now enjoying the fruits of your labour.

Any girl that felt like i didn't deserve her in my start up stage, shouldn't even come flocking around me in my maturity stage, the same thing with those girls that rejected me in my preparatory stage that is my growth stage, they shouldn't come near me when my account is fat and i have different mansions because they don't deserve it, and they are gold diggers. Fact is, if they come i will have sex with them and ditch them because they are slay queens.

That is why i will always tell my friends that not every woman is a wife but every wife is a woman, so if you as a girl know you are not created to suffer be involved in the making of a man, like i said earlier on behind every successful man is a woman, be that woman that a man cant live without, its not by giving him head or doggy its by believing in him when no one did, its by sacrificing for him when he was nothing because you believe in his tomorrow. When i find such girl as a man i will treasure her for life.



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Re: Why Girls Love Already Made Men by: Confidant(f) .:. Fri, 21 Jun, 2019 - 01:08:51:am GMT

There is nothing wrong for a girl to go for already made man. At least they were not created to suffer. So it isn't a must that a girl should agree to suffer with you.


Some of this guy's who always want ladies to suffer with them, don't even have a goal they are pursuing. They have no goals or dreams and try want that fine girl to sit and soak garri with them till their Brian's are finally working again and they find a means of surviving.

I'm not against ladies going after already made men but the rate at which ladies go after material things is just to much.

They mustn't see a guy who is wealthy, they will want him to marry them,they will want him to be their lover cays they know they won't suffer. And many of this wealthy guys will marry them without cheating on them or making them suffer but nevertheless, the rate at which ladies are after material things is bad.

This got many ladies into danger, some died in the process of going after materials things. Some ran mad. Some lost their destiny and glory to this so-called rich guys.

Some became a prey to the devil. And so many like that. All because of material things.

You don't know how the guy that expensive car, you don't know how he was able to buy that beautiful house. His income is nothing to be compared to such expensive assets but you still dug your head in.


May God help our ladies.

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Re: Why Girls Love Already Made Men by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Wed, 10 Jul, 2019 - 03:51:11:pm GMT

Am not against going for an already made man but KNOW YOUR LEVEL

It's okay to dream and desire but that needs to be balanced with reality and feasibility.
You will not approach a car dealer with N500,000 looking to price a Bugatti Chiron. Yet, while this is so, you can still get a car decent enough for that price tag.

The key thing is in knowing your level.

Don't allow yourself to be deceived by the "there are many ladies out there" statement. Yes, there are but it's one thing to be just another lady and a different thing to be the wife you seek.

If you have at best a secondary school certificate or even an OND, please understand that while you will be free to seek a woman with MSc or PhD, these levels are far apart and that will affect the probability of you getting.
Again, there's nothing wrong with dreaming and if you are willing to wait until you find one, fine but don't complain or wonder why all the ones you approach don't take you seriously.

This example is the same for looks, orientation, social class, finance, intelligence, enlightenment etc.

Sometimes, people on opposite ends fuse together to complement themselves but even with those, the core of their relationship stays on sync.

That is not to say you won't find exceptions because they exist but in seeking spouses, you need to embrace your reality so that you can look at the right pool and seek the right qualities for yourself.

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