Crimes » Marital Rape by: Nagiano(m) .:. Sun, 19 Jul, 2020 - 10:53:03:am GMT
Rape can simply be summarized to be forceful penetration.
Can a husband rape a wife?
Many men feel that the fact that they paid a woman's bride price they can penetrate her anytime they want even when she doesn't give her consent. In fact, some men will be living with their wives without talking to her maybe for something she did wrong but at night when they are horny they'll want to have their way even when the woman says no, the man will forcefully penetrate her or beat her up just to have his way.
Therefore, when it comes to the topic marital rape, there are lots to be said and ill love to engage the platform, to read your thoughts as regards the topic.
Thank you.
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Re: Marital Rape by: MichealThankGod(m) .:. Tue, 25 Aug, 2020 - 12:47:59:pm GMT
@nagiano:Well you have your reasons and points of pointing to people been religious, and that they are the most people who rape most.
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Re: Marital Rape by: Nagiano(m) .:. Tue, 25 Aug, 2020 - 01:26:28:pm GMT
@MichealThankGod:
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Re: Marital Rape by: MichealThankGod(m) .:. Tue, 25 Aug, 2020 - 01:37:22:pm GMT
@nagiano:Smiles, this is becoming interesting, with due respect sir and with all humility, we are only contributing, in other to bring an end to this issue of rape.
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Re: Marital Rape by: Nagiano(m) .:. Tue, 25 Aug, 2020 - 01:55:36:pm GMT
@MichealThankGod:
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Re: Marital Rape by: Sardyne(f) .:. Mon, 31 Aug, 2020 - 12:21:55:pm GMT
But why would a man think of raping his own wife? What happened to the love he claim to have for her? Or is that what love means to him? Doesn't he know that rape leaves a woman with so much pains? You can't rape your wife and expect her to be happy with you. It's not possible, except if she wants to pretend that she is fine.
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Re: Marital Rape by: Sardyne(f) .:. Mon, 31 Aug, 2020 - 12:32:31:pm GMT
@nagiano:
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Re: Marital Rape by: Nagiano(m) .:. Mon, 31 Aug, 2020 - 01:32:36:pm GMT
@Sardyne:
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Re: Marital Rape by: Chiboy(m) .:. Thu, 22 Oct, 2020 - 04:04:51:pm GMT
Women are meant to be respected, If you cannot respect your wife decision,it simply mean you do not love her. She has every right to say she's not in the mode for sex, you don't have to forcefully have your way with her.
**Chiboy**
Re: Marital Rape by: Jummy(m) .:. Fri, 23 Oct, 2020 - 09:12:26:am GMT
Rape means having sexual intercourse without consent, rape is usually done violently. Sex is something that is meant to be enjoyed and not forced, it requires the consent of two partners to make the act pleasurable.
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Re: Marital Rape by: Obajichi(f) .:. Thu, 12 Nov, 2020 - 10:39:17:am GMT
I believe there is something called marital rape. It seems some men don't even know that sexual intercourse that is carried out with force or ruggedly done is like fighting on the battle ground.
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Re: Marital Rape by: Chamak(f) .:. Thu, 12 Nov, 2020 - 11:26:29:am GMT
@Obajichi:
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Re: Marital Rape by: Abosedegrace(f) .:. Wed, 17 Mar, 2021 - 01:33:20:pm GMT
Marital rape is something that I don't even pray for even my enemy to go through. Its really demoralizing!
And men don't just cheat their wives only in the area of sex. Some men will be trying to be playing on the intelligence of their wives. I mean the truth of a matter will be very clear but they will still deny it, they will still make the wife to look like a fool. Seriously all of these do get on my nerves.
One thing men should understand is that although a woman may not always be right but once a woman start asking questions about something, just know that she has found out all about it and even if she hasn't, she is on the mission to find out and she surely will. I know you guys will always be guys but seriously when you are caught, courtesy demands you accept your wrongs, you are not going to die but these people won't instead they will accuse you of being a nag and stupid and when night comes, you are to fulfill your duty as the wife.
Having sex with your wife when she's down or not in the mood is demoralizing along with all the lies and deceit, they all are very bad.
Life is really simple, lets just keep it that way please.
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Re: Marital Rape by: Olatoke(m) .:. Sat, 21 Aug, 2021 - 01:59:27:pm GMT
Rape is the action process where you force someone in sex activity.
Rape is something which you force the opposite sex to do with out willing from his or her heart.
Marital rape .marital rape is when the either the wife or husband force himself or herself to have sex.
There shouldn't be marital rape but in some occasion it happens.
Couples ,husband don't force your wife to have sex with you and also the wife dont force your husband to have sex with you .
Sex is the act of thought that come from someone heaet willingly .
**Olatoke **
Re: Marital Rape by: Olatoke(m) .:. Sat, 21 Aug, 2021 - 05:11:06:pm GMT
Marital rape ,these is mostly common with men ,men you have to lead your home with peace and care .woman are to be treated with love affection.
Men are the starting point in these cases, if you as your wife for sex and she refuses listen to her and digest her word.
The wife if your husband demand sex from you and you are not interested explain to him gently quietly dont shout on your husband .
If you shout on him he can force himself on you which you wont like it, sometimes the husband can be in mood and the wife may not have interest if it happens like this talk about it gently.
**Olatoke **
Re: Marital Rape by: Ojc(E)(m) .:. Tue, 24 Aug, 2021 - 08:46:03:am GMT
Marital rape is very common in this part of the world.
Most men feel that they are entitled to a woman once they have paid her bride price, so they feel she has no right to say no to whatever he wants, which is not right.
The worse part is that the crime is not punishable by the law in Nigeria.
Many attimes if the woman goes to report the case to the police she would be chased away and even blamed for the crime.
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Re: Marital Rape by: Fashnet(m) .:. Tue, 07 Sep, 2021 - 09:19:38:pm GMT
@Bookie: Let me start by saying that you have a very good point there and that is exactly what has been happening in the society when it comes to marital rape.
In my opinion I think that there is need for reorientation and teaching on sex generally and how the body of the female work when it comes to sex.
I think that if this is properly done and carried out, some married men and even singles and all classes of men would learn and come to appreciate the way female body works.
This then would give rise to the men to respect their wives and even all single women in relationships inclusive of those that are not in relationships as it may be.
I also think that the former cultural training given to men and whatsoever tradition they might have learnt that promotes rape or any form of aggression and assault to the women generally needs to be corrected so that all these inhuman acts to all affected ladies and women can be stopped.
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Re: Marital Rape by: Ojc(E)(m) .:. Fri, 24 Sep, 2021 - 02:49:25:am GMT
Marital rape is very common in this part of the world.
We live in a country where a man's right precedes that of a woman.
We live in a country where women are regarded as properties they get married to them.
I just hope that things change for the better.
Re: Marital Rape by: Ojc(E)(m) .:. Fri, 24 Sep, 2021 - 02:53:01:am GMT
@Fashnet: you're right about that we need to modify most of our traditional practices rather than just stick to them totally without any change.
Re: Marital Rape by: Lilcent(m) .:. Sun, 26 Sep, 2021 - 10:41:17:pm GMT
@nagiano: We still have a long way to go in this part of the world.
Re: Marital Rape by: Damilola(f) .:. Thu, 14 Oct, 2021 - 05:51:11:pm GMT
This is indeed a serious case that needs somuch attention. Marital rape is a bad act but it can not just happen suddenly in a marriage.. something will always lead to another thing.
It is either the husband is a sex addict or the wife is one who doesn't like sex much.
If a man is addicted to sex and he married a woman who is so reluctant when it comes to sex, there will be problem., because the man will want to satisfy himself. I watched a film like that, which talks about this marital rape.
The husband is someone who love sex but the wife find it difficult to satisfy him in that area. Then he went ahead to sleep with his wife's sister, threatening her that he will stop caring for her family if she ever tell her wife.
This continues (even with tears in her eyes, he will have sex with her) until his secret was opened.
I think marital rape occurs as a result of it knowing each other well before marriage.
Am not saying that you should engage in premarital sex, it is just communication. At the stage of courtship, you should know each other well. Know each other's strength and weakness. Ladies, ask how much he like sex, so it will not shock you when you get married., because Immediately we are married, all our body belongs to our husband and vise versa, Know matter what. He might have offended you, but you are never deny him of his right. Even that way, you will not give room for the devil. After that, you can settle things amicably.
**Damilola**
Re: Marital Rape by: Iyanu(f) .:. Tue, 16 Nov, 2021 - 09:08:59:am GMT
Sex between couples is ment to be enjoyed not forcing any one.
Marital rape is very common to men , some men even think women are slaves in their home.
Gently talk to your wife if you are in mood rather than forcing her to do what she is not ready for.
**Oladipupo **
Re: Marital Rape by: Iyanu(f) .:. Thu, 18 Nov, 2021 - 12:18:27:am GMT
Sex is ment to be enjoyed by both male and female , female like it especially when the man is romantic hummm.
Because you are feeling honey dosent mean that the opposite sex of yours too feel the same right .
Some men are in to drug addict when ever they are been high they behave anyhow when they rich home talk to their wife any how .
Marital rape is real if you are in to the habit put a stop to it because it is very bad .
**Oladipupo **