Education » Maintaining Good manners by: Jt-unique(m) .:. Mon, 31 Dec, 2018 - 11:41:47:am GMT
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Gooddypye(m) .:. Tue, 01 Jan, 2019 - 07:40:28:am GMT
That's true... Manners cost nothing but yet can generate so much good will and makes everyone's life that much more please. If any one thinks he/she has always keep a good manner. Change this words to opposite. And you will realize you have always been keeping bad manners. Do you open door ahead of people when they person is not your girlfriend? I know that's so common. And tomorrow you will throw her away. Do you say good morning first when you see others? Or you wait for them to greet you first. Am very sure as the boss man or woman. Ruling Your Own world. Nobody can control you. Nobody can talk any how to you. You can talk to anyone anyhow. You can do anything you like. We feel it's normal at times to act in such way. But it's not. You are intimidating someone. You are punishing someone. You are making someone feel rejected and wretched. It's a New Year. You can change those ways. We can change those ways. We can. Let's stop making people feel inferior. Let's stop being part of the reason why some people feel they have no reason to live with our characters. Lets not be the reason for someone tears. If they will cry. Let it be a cry for joy. It cost nothing to hurt others. It cost you nothing. So, why should we choose that. Let's amend our manners. Not abusing people because they did a little mistake. Not slapping someone badly who mistakenly stepped on your foot. Not pouring water on someone because he/she came begging. Bad manners only brings bad names. People will start seeing you as a wicked person. Some will say he is strict or she is strict. It's not cool to hear. Been strict does not portrait discipline. Been nice and friendly to everyone.
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Piwizo(m) .:. Tue, 01 Jan, 2019 - 06:51:52:pm GMT
Good manners is considering the feelings of other people, and being the kind of person that others will like and respect, even in the bible we have something called the golden rule in matthew 7:12 do unto others what you want others to do unto you.
Good manners are more than opening doors and writing thank you notes. While opening doors for others and writing notes is nice, true courtesy goes deeper. Being polite and courteous means considering how others are feeling.
If you practice good manners, you are showing those around you that you are considerate of their feelings and respectful. You are also setting standards for others' behavior and encouraging them to treat you with similar respect.
Every culture and individual may have different rules or feelings about what is polite or is not polite. The goal of this course is to review some of the more basic and common rules of polite behavior in our society.
These rules may differ from person to person or based on situation, but there is one rule of good manners (and life, in general) that is always easy to follow - do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Dont be good because you expect others to be good towards you, dont be good because you want others to repay you, be good because it is your nature to be good, so despite the actions or reactions of your spheres of contact, you still remain good because its your identity!!!
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Jt-unique(m) .:. Fri, 11 Jan, 2019 - 09:34:43:pm GMT
Well, sometimes it's easy to have opinions, because we all do. The problem is knowing when to them to your self and when to express them. It is also mannerism. The reason most people don't know when to keep quiet is that they think their opinion :
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Obinnaoguji(m) .:. Sat, 27 Apr, 2019 - 07:09:45:pm GMT
Words well articulated. Lack of manners has taken away opportunities from most people and they wonder what has been the cause and question their their skills, abilities and qualifications. Generally most firms, in their recruitment process pay as much attention to your manners as they do to your qualification and experiences.
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Velisa(f) .:. Fri, 07 Jun, 2019 - 10:56:52:am GMT
I can't tell if i ever opened door ahead of someone before. Am always in wait for the person to open the door for me.
Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Tue, 16 Jun, 2020 - 07:56:08:pm GMT
It's good to have Manners but its great to have Good manners. Good manners helps a lot in the journey of life.
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Princess(f) .:. Wed, 17 Jun, 2020 - 06:25:21:pm GMT
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Flora(m) .:. Wed, 17 Jun, 2020 - 07:58:03:pm GMT
Good manners are one of the most valued behavior accepted in the society today. Elders love it when younger ones show respect in one way or the other. Having good manners doesn't cost one anything.
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Flat(m) .:. Thu, 18 Jun, 2020 - 03:49:21:am GMT
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Ayomide(m) .:. Fri, 19 Jun, 2020 - 05:07:58:pm GMT
Benefits of Good Manners: Having proper etiquette is essential in all aspects of life if you want others to respect you .Here are some of the many advantages of having good manners:
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Dynameak(m) .:. Fri, 19 Jun, 2020 - 05:21:15:pm GMT
@Flat:
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Dynameak(m) .:. Fri, 19 Jun, 2020 - 05:35:55:pm GMT
**Life is a race but with God's element of grace it'll be worth while to explore His goodness. **
Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Flochords(f) .:. Sat, 20 Jun, 2020 - 03:25:37:pm GMT
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Davzee(m) .:. Wed, 08 Jul, 2020 - 09:51:35:pm GMT
Maintaining good manners will help you in so many ways, if you are nice to people, people will want to help you. People like me I like polite and good manner people. If you are nice to me eh, anything you ask me to do for you because I like you.
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Azure(m) .:. Thu, 09 Jul, 2020 - 12:22:52:pm GMT
Good manners is also known as etiquette. Etiquette is the set of conventional rules of personal behaviour in polite society, usually in the form of an ethical code that delineates the expected and accepted social behaviors that accord with the conventions and norms observed by a society, a social class, or a social group.
- Put others first. ...
- To have Polite phone protocol. ...
- To be able to say please ..
- Open the door for others. ...
- Use thank you and you're welcome routinely in a conversation. ...
- Shake hands and make eye contact. ...
- Teach them to offer to serve people who enter your home. ...
- Stand up when an elder enters the room.
- Good manners are about respecting yourself and others. They will make life more enjoyable for you and for those you come into contact with. If you are well mannered others will be more comfortable in your company. People with good manners will usually make a positive impression on those around them. Here are some tips to help teach manners to your children:
- Model manners. If you want your child to have good manners, you must make sure you do as well
- Practice at home
- Take them out in public
- Give him or her the right words to say
- Give your youngster positive reinforcement
- Be patient
- Learn to coach
- Teach table manners
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Princessprecious(m) .:. Thu, 09 Jul, 2020 - 05:48:37:pm GMT
That's true ooo... Having good manners open ways for someone. The way you talk and the way you address people matters most. Sometimes even when I see that involving in an argument with you might cause something else, I rather keep quite and keep mute... Or i should just say OK.... it not every time we have to let people know we are right or we know how to talk....
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Glamour(f) .:. Thu, 09 Jul, 2020 - 06:30:56:pm GMT
Manners means one's attitude or behavior. Good manners are about respecting yourself and others. They make life easy for yourself and those you come in contact with. People with good manners will usually make a positive impression on those around them.
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Phaithh(f) .:. Fri, 10 Jul, 2020 - 02:32:52:pm GMT
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Ojc(E)(m) .:. Mon, 12 Oct, 2020 - 06:44:52:am GMT
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Gifted_Spec(m) .:. Mon, 12 Oct, 2020 - 03:45:23:pm GMT
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Gifted_Spec(m) .:. Mon, 12 Oct, 2020 - 03:45:24:pm GMT
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Obajichi(f) .:. Sat, 17 Oct, 2020 - 12:13:25:pm GMT
Good manners reveals a lot about the kind of training you received from your family.
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Francis(m) .:. Sat, 17 Oct, 2020 - 12:44:22:pm GMT
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Re: Maintaining Good manners by: Oluwatomisin(f) .:. Mon, 19 Oct, 2020 - 08:16:27:am GMT
Good manners is very essential and its precious. You can't never write someone with good manner off. They are always treated like a queen and king. As we journey through life, we meet new people everyday and also we meet with different race and tribe. Our manners is what project us out to them.
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