Babe-Fishing/Dating » HOW TO AVOID HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIPS by: Patbaby(f) .:. Mon, 30 Jun, 2014 - 09:49:48:am GMT
1. Not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season only few are for a life time. If it doesn't work out don't kill yourself because it was for something. Discover the purpose and move on. 2. Don't give a man or a woman the totality of your heart before giving the totality of your heart to God. Love that person but put God first. 3. Don't get carried away with beauty or money, if that person's inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot either. 4. Love is never enough, understanding,compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important. 5. When the negative signs are more than the positive signs. It is better to withdraw your heart before it gets 'broken'. 6. Extreme jealousy is the quickest way to break that relationship. 7. Don't demand trust, earn it or build it or show it. 8. Never you compare him or her to someone else. 9. Your relationship should not only be marriage driven but care,love and concern driven.
Re: HOW TO AVOID HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIPS by: Tallgirl(f) .:. Tue, 01 Jul, 2014 - 01:55:53:am GMT
Re: HOW TO AVOID HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIPS by: Kenny11973(m) .:. Thu, 06 Nov, 2014 - 06:36:49:am GMT
| Quote from Tallgirl: I totally agree with you. Especially point 6, 7 and 9. trust is to be earned. And extreme jealousy has been a real problem in relationships. |
Re: HOW TO AVOID HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIPS by: Velisa(f) .:. Thu, 07 Mar, 2019 - 11:10:57:pm GMT
I learnt the truth that putting God first in everything makes it perfect. And I will say, one way to avoid heartbreak is never give all your heart just because you claim you love someone who is yet to marry you. If at last you didn't marry and you've so much hoped on the person, then you are really going to face a terrible heart break. Pray along in every relationship you find your self. Some men are destiny killers, destroyers. Not them but the spirit in them. The devil might see a sister to be very fervent in prayer, calm and doing the will of God and he would search through the sister life, and once he finds out she is single. One way to terminate her spiritual life and bring her down is by putting a man between she and God. It takes prayer not to fall into temptation. So, pray hard. And when you notice he's way are not Godly, my dear run for your life.
Re: HOW TO AVOID HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIPS by: Divinkeme1(m) .:. Fri, 08 Mar, 2019 - 09:00:33:am GMT
Truly some relationships are for a season some are indeed for a season. Just as the the writer has stated clearly. So many reasons are leading to heartbreak in a relationship. The basic things to identify in a relationship is to know the reason why you are in a relationship and the person you are in a relationship with before you can be able get the beat out the relationship. Some people get into a relationship just to while away the time because of situations he or she has found him or her self. But failure for the opposite sex to understand that will lead to heart break because most things will never get too blending. Then another reason why people get heart breaks is that they expect heaven and earth from the relationship. So many things always go wrong because if you expect a whole lot from the relationship and things never work as planned it will lead to a heart break. At the same time one person in that relationship might be double dating and will find it difficult to meet all the demands of the next person which will as well lead to a serious heart break. Let's always in a relationship expect less and try to be selfless. Give you best and love even when be other person is not responding as you expect. On the thee day your love will locate you.
**Blessed by God**
Re: HOW TO AVOID HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIPS by: Piwizo(m) .:. Fri, 08 Mar, 2019 - 03:18:43:pm GMT
I use to tell people, don't expect too much from people who offer too little, in fact don't assume that because a guy gives you gifts and compliments that he is your man or it means you're the only girl in his life, when your motive is wrong about your partner then heartbreak becomes the order of the day, most relationship finally crashes because most times one partner doesn't bring anything valuable to the table, and as a lady if all you can offer is your body then you've missed it, you have to offer more than just your body, let the guy you're seeing see the treasure in you and what he stands to gain when he's with you, it might be the right counsel whenever he's in a difficult situation or it might be how you carry yourself as a lady the way you talk or are organized, don't run after money or material things because men and guys know if that's all you are after, stay committed to your partner no matter what or else you will loose them, some partners nowadays set test for their spouse or fiancé and most of them fail woefully, finally never trust too much, because man doesn't have the capacity to keep his word only God has that capacity!!! Until you are married have this in the back of your mind that you are single even though your partner looks to be your all in all, you will thank me later!!! God bless you
Re: HOW TO AVOID HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIPS by: Piwizo(m) .:. Mon, 29 Apr, 2019 - 04:13:23:pm GMT
Re: HOW TO AVOID HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIPS by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Thu, 16 May, 2019 - 07:53:47:am GMT
Well said, but note: there is no way you won't feel hurt when your heart is broken by someone you so much love. No matter how you try to control the emotions. It hurts a lot that you might start feeling you won't find a good man or woman like that person because you so much love the person.