Romance » Your Role As A Lady In Getting Your Man by: Oma_maron(f) .:. Mon, 01 Apr, 2019 - 11:34:44:pm GMT

As a lady, you wish to get married but it seems men are not coming. Even the ones that are coming usually disappear after some time.Some of them must have deceived you, after you give them sex, they ran away. Could it be caused by spiritual husband? Maybe you have done deliverance several times, yet no serious man is coming to you for a serious relationship.

You have prayed and prayed and fasted, yet no husband has come. What is the way out? This is my advice to you: Check your characters. How do you behave to men? If you have bad characters, then fasting and prayer cannot work unless you change your characters. Do you talk to men with respect? Are you well behaved? What about your manner of approach do you have good manner of approach? What about your dressing, hope you dress very neat and you don't have mouth odour and body odour. check all these things.

If you are faulty in your dressing, neatness and manners of approach, prayer and fasting will not give you a husband. Yes prayer works, but you must play your own part first, then prayer will become effective. Work on your body shape if you are too obese. Then you will see how men will be begging you to marry them. Above all, do not be too desperate to get a man of your own. Remember also that God has set a time for everything. Do not be in a hurry than God.

**Graced **

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Re: Your Role As A Lady In Getting Your Man by: Velisa(f) .:. Tue, 02 Apr, 2019 - 07:51:59:am GMT

No man is coming to you shouldn't make you to start begging men. You should know your value as a woman. Just check yourself first according to what is written above. When you check yourself and know you are good, then wait for the right time of God with prayer along. Even if you like don't pray, what will be will be.

And one thing is that some ladies do some things extremely. They behave too rude to some guys most especially when they have a boyfriend they've believed to spend the rest of their life with. They don't consider other guys coming their way. They feel they don't need them. But it's wrong. And I hope ladies will know this that as long as you are not married, don't make things hard for guys. Still allow them around you. So, when that jerk you've always hope on leaves you. You will be able to get someone else. And I hope it won't be the type that has used you anyhow. Always offering him sex, washing his clothes, staying with him and lot more. It can be really painful. But when you have another to stand with you then, you can easily overcome that.


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Re: Your Role As A Lady In Getting Your Man by: Piwizo(m) .:. Tue, 30 Apr, 2019 - 09:30:13:pm GMT

You are searching but think of this....

What do suitors see when they look at you?

In fact, what do people generally see when they look at you?

What do you represent?

The inability or refusal to answer this question has been the reason many are unable to get into good relationships that take them where they want to go.
When you meet someone and on their social media page, the first thing you see is a very revealing outfit, it sends a message. Now, let's ignore the actual outfit and focus on the impression created. It is assumed that if you put up a picture like that, you want to be seen as that. Unfortunately, that's not the case, many put up images (generally, not just picture) that represent something they are not, then turn round and wonder why they are getting treatment they don't deserve.

That's social media, now imagine what many represent in real life. There is something called 'first impression' and it holds strong. So, what first impressions are you creating?

Are people seeing you and judging you by your physical endowments? If the first thing a man can see is how massive your bust is then be rest assured that it will play a huge role in defining what you are seen as. Yes, you may be a lot of other things, but the one you are pushing forward is your breasts so it is the one you'd be judged by. The same as if your butt is what you are defined by.

Again, you own your life and decide a lot but if you are getting judged according to your breasts or butt, at least let it be because it is what you want.

Don't pretend to be what you are not but recognise what you are and what you want to be, then go out and make sure that is what is seen.

A lot depends on how you dress, walk, talk, interact, what you say, when you say it, where you say it. These are the things that those you care about profile you by. To not watch these is to do yourself a lot of damage.

So, wear it all and flash your assets, be loud and talk to anyone as you wish, twist, shake it and twerk online since you own it, just don't expect to be seen as someone else.


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Re: Your Role As A Lady In Getting Your Man by: Willidgr8t(m) .:. Wed, 01 May, 2019 - 12:06:53:am GMT

Even though in Africa it is conventional for a man to go for the woman he likes or loves.That not withstanding ladies have alot of roles or responsibilities to play with respect to attracting the man of their dream

Naturally men are attracted by what they see more than anything else.In view of this ladies should learn to pay more attention to their physical outlook..that's to say that ladies should learn to dress modestly,smartly and neatly. Ladies should learn color combination Ladies should learn how best to wear their make ups..

Outside physical outlook there's a very important virtue every lady out there should try to imbibe...which is what I call domestication....there's a popular saying that goes like this..."the easiest route to a man's heart is his stomach "every lady who needs her man home should learn how to keep the home front..learn how to make different kinds of food and some other domesticated chores. With the above mentioned points..different men will come seeking your hand in marriage .

**I'm very optimistic about life! **

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Re: Your Role As A Lady In Getting Your Man by: Gooddypye(f) .:. Thu, 16 May, 2019 - 08:11:36:am GMT

One day a lady friend of mine walked told me..."I want to marry a wealthy guy and educated one of course." I was silent . It's not bad you know. But! You know what... This lady is from a poor home, has no education except secondary school certificate and the worst is that, she hardly speaks English. She struggles with English all the time. She has no job. Leaving and hawking for her poor mother.

This made her not to give face to the good guys coming her way till she will find the one she is looking for.

I don't mean... It's bad to have such wish. If you are wishing for such, you should also be somebody that person will wish for. At least be a graduate or be someone meaningful. Or rather speak good English. But you are none of this. Yet you are asking for someone hire than you in all ways.

Check your self and work on your self because you make your decision.

I've seen a lady who married a guy, they were both poor but they worked together and the guy became very rich. But when his wealth came. He threw away the lady, saying she's an illiterate. She does not fit his status.


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