Babe-Fishing/Dating » WHY IS DIVORCE SO COMMON NOWADAYS? by: Gooddypye .:. Thu, 10 Jan, 2019 - 04:08:09:pm GMT

For a while now, I’ve being thinking and wandering why divorce is on high rate all over the world. It’s just so common and it’s seen as nothing. And if you look down to the past history of the divorced, they always had a beautiful love story, that nobody would expect such thing to happen. An interesting of how they met and how they shared lovely memories that you feel can’t be easily wiped off. But not long after marriage, they get divorced. Many divorce happens for just some sick reasons.But so far, I really want to know why divorce is so common after a beautiful love story. I want us to discuss on this. Give your ideas about divorce.

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Re: WHY IS DIVORCE SO COMMON NOWADAYS? by: Mizhbell .:. Fri, 11 Jan, 2019 - 03:19:14:pm GMT

In my insight, i believe, most people gets married with an higher hopes of a long happy life together. Of course, marriage is like a garden you must look after regularly, or else "" Weeds"" can grow. And if these weeds are not taken care of, they can ultimately destroy the "" Garden"". Divorce is common in the world because most couples don't get back what they give. These are some major reasons why people ""Divorce ""... 1. Lack of Good Communication. When couples are sharing a life together, its ensured that they are able to discuss about what they need and understand and try to meet the needs of their partner. When that stops, each of them can feel isolated, lonely and can stop caring a about each other completely. This can lead to relationship breakdown, then divorce comes in. 2. Issues with Family in-laws. Family can be a big source of stress for a couple. If a couple does not understand how to have good boundaries with family it can cause a lot of fighting. In addition, each family has its own particular “culture” (how things are done, attitudes, values, etc.). When two people come together they are melding two different cultures. When this isn’t done successfully, it can end a marriage. Things can really get complicated when the marriage is blended with children from past partners. The family issues can multiply and cause even more stress on the couple. 3. Trouble With Finances. If couples are not on the same angle on how finances are going to be handled, this can lead to terrible problems. Differences in how much money each partner brings into the marriage can also lead to power plays between a couple.This can wreak havoc on their sense of unity and ultimately their happiness. 4. Infertility. This when a couple cannot conceive after having regular unprotected sex. It may be that one partner cannot contribute to conception, or the woman is unable carry a pregnancy to full term.
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Re: WHY IS DIVORCE SO COMMON NOWADAYS? by: Mizhbell .:. Fri, 11 Jan, 2019 - 03:42:31:pm GMT

In my insight, i believe, most people gets married with an higher hopes of a long happy life together. Of course, marriage is like a garden you must look after regularly, or else "" Weeds"" can grow. And if these weeds are not taken care of, they can ultimately destroy the "" Garden"". Divorce is common in the world because most couples don't get back what they give. These are some major reasons why people ""Divorce ""... 1. Lack of Good Communication. When couples are sharing a life together, its ensured that they are able to discuss about what they need and understand and try to meet the needs of their partner. When that stops, each of them can feel isolated, lonely and can stop caring a about each other completely. This can lead to relationship breakdown, then divorce comes in. 2. Issues with Family in-laws. Family can be a big source of stress for a couple. If a couple does not understand how to have good boundaries with family it can cause a lot of fighting. In addition, each family has its own particular “culture” (how things are done, attitudes, values, etc.). When two people come together they are melding two different cultures. When this isn’t done successfully, it can end a marriage. Things can really get complicated when the marriage is blended with children from past partners. The family issues can multiply and cause even more stress on the couple. 3. Trouble With Finances. If couples are not on the same angle on how finances are going to be handled, this can lead to terrible problems. Differences in how much money each partner brings into the marriage can also lead to power plays between a couple.This can wreak havoc on their sense of unity and ultimately their happiness. 4. Infertility. This when a couple cannot conceive after having regular unprotected sex. It may be that one partner cannot contribute to conception, or the woman is unable carry a pregnancy to full term.
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Re: WHY IS DIVORCE SO COMMON NOWADAYS? by: Gooddypye .:. Fri, 11 Jan, 2019 - 04:50:22:pm GMT


@mizhbell: You really gave good points and i agree to those points too. I don't know if anyone has really thought of what i have to say now, that one of the reasons why marriage breaks is, some marriages are built on sex. Marriage is expected to be built on love. When a man marries a lady just because she is good on bed, then the day she begins to fail on bed, problem creeps in. I thought all over and over again and could only give just this reason. Love is supposed to be the foundation of a home not sex. Sex is just for pleasure and to multiply the family. But love is what will keep the family together. Love is what will keep the family growing.
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Re: WHY IS DIVORCE SO COMMON NOWADAYS? by: Piwizo .:. Mon, 14 Jan, 2019 - 02:45:04:pm GMT

In addition to the vital points and facts that you have raised, I believe divorce is very rampant because people in marriage have the wrong priority, if you understand the reason for marriage then you will not engage in divorce, now what is marriage, people mistake marriage for wedding or living as husband and wife there’s more to marriage than just the idea or thought of getting married, Marriage is a spiritual union done physically between a man and a woman who share the same vision and goals and connect together, it could also be a commitment between a man and woman to create a home and live joyfully. Now having said that, the major reason while people divorce is because of misfitted marriages, getting married to someone who is not suitable to you as a man and as a woman, so when you are living with the wrong man or the wrong woman or staying with another mans wife or another woman’s husband there’s bound to be problems even though you legally got married to him or her, some person get married because of pressure of family, oh I am getting old and I need a man then you jump into into the wrong ship, ofcourse there won’t be peace in the home and it will lead to divorce, some people they marry because of beauty, and most especially outwards beauty forgetting that it will fade away oh the guy is tall and fair in complexion or the guy has six packs forgetting that all those things are irrelevant and the guy might turn out to be a wife beater, so there are various reasons why divorce is so common, and the very last one I wiii talk about is having that funny theory that when you marry him/her you will change him, see if he didn’t change during dating or courtship, he won’t change when you are married, so my advice to young ones who wanna get married, look for a guy who has a job and most especially look for someone who is suitable to you, once you are married to the one suitable to you then there would be peace!!! Thank you
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