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Literature/Writing \ Honesty \ Honesty!! There is this story of a guy who have been seeking for job for a long time, fortunately for him, he met a C.E.O of a company who he rendered a little help to when his car breaked down on the road. The man discovered that he is a little bit education, so he ask for his qualifications, he said he doesn't attend secondary school, but the man decided to help him irrespective of his level. So, he was called for interview, meanwhile they were so many people that came for the interview. He was a man that was obviously qualified for the job(gate keeper), but because of the influence the other guy has, he was given the job. At the compound of the company, some of the interviewee saw an envelope full of dollars. He was shocked and immediately he called the attention of some staff, they were so marvelled by what he did and they ask for his details assuring him of the job. So they decided to play a trick on the other interviewee to test their honesty. Then, the guy that was given the job came out of the company, he sighted the money and immediately he changed his walking posture. He looked here and there to be sure that no one is watching, so he picked the money. The staffs who was hiding came out and met him with the money. He was disgraced and sent out of the company. Dishonesty and greediness has made him to loose his job. Well, it might not be physical, and that is the most reason why we need to pray against that spirit. Honesty has a great reward and places you higher than you expected. **Francis**
Politics \ HOW CAN WE SET UP YOUTH PRESIDENCY BY 2023 IN NIGERIA? \ Unity we stand, divided we fall. If we are united, there is nothing we can't achieve. Just like the way the protest is being organized, we can still achieve the coming presidential election if we speak in one voice.  Youths(not ordinary youth, but the ones that has future for this country) should come out to contest for posts, we should create a new party to erase all the old governments.  "Easy to say than done". I know that is what you will be thinking in your mind, but I want you to know that commitment and prayer are the secrets. Yes we can build a new country, we can achieve it by God's grace. **Francis**
Fitness/Diet \ What to do when they say you are fat. \ Food does not enhance fatness. Some fatness are natural. When people say you are fat, appreciate them for their compliment.., are you the one that created yourself?. Some fatness can be inherited while some are due to the upbringing. Some fatness are due to the quality of food taken, because if we say that it's the  quantity of food, I have a friend that eat as if there is no tommorow, but so thin. Likewise myself, I don't eat much but people do say am fat. If you are fat, what you need is to maintain your body in other to have a good stature with it. **Francis**
Family/Parenting \ Is It A Must for Children to Take Care of Their Parents \ It is necessary for a child t take care of his/her parents but it is not compulsory. A wise and responsible child will take it as a must because there is always blessings in taking care of parents. If you have the capacity, why not do it. Some children are so worst that they will be enjoying in abundance and their parents will be there suffering. That child is laying curse on his/her head unknowingly.  Also if you don't have the power to do that, no problem, God sees your heart. Even if your parents are rich in their own, buy something for them so they can pray for you wholeheartedly. No parents can pray that they should not eat the fruit of their labour. We all wish to do so. That is why most parents are pressurizing their children.  But the parent also should understand a child, in case there is no power.  **Francis**
Education \ Between the Dog and Rat, Who is Truly Man's Friend? \ Hmm, the case of a dog to men is like a friend to who is entangled to us, someone we do play and share our secrets with. While the case of a rat to some men is an  useful enemy( that is, an enemy who is later use as a step stone to ones glory).  Both animals, are fed by man and each serves a specific purpose. Just that rat are fed without the consent of a man, they steal and destroys the things of men, that is why their usefulness are not being recognized by men.  Notwithstanding, dogs are a very good friend to man, they serve many purposes like running an errand, a means of security and an helper. In fact I was so impressed by video of a well trained dog I watched. He(male dog) sighted an helpless man, so he ran to his master just to call him to help the man, and so on like that. In fact, Some men cannot do without them.  So a dog is forever a friend to man. **Francis**
Babe-Fishing/Dating \ SIGNS THAT TELL YOU ARE NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP \ There is no journey in life that does not require preparation. Before you can be accepted in higher institution, you must have pass through some levels, that is, you must have something in your brain that will make you to be qualified for the admission. Likewise a student cannot go into the examination hall without been prepared. Relationship is not what to conclude on by mere feelings, you must have all the qualifications of a responsible man/woman.  For you to get the right person, you must be perfect yourself or close to perfection. Relationship means taking responsibilities, so you must be ready to be responsible for each other. A woman lacks good character, she said she doesn't have luck for husband. You will see a woman running from one man to the other, it is because she is not qualified to be in a relationship, it is also applicable to men.  Our Readinesst matters. **Francis**
Romance \ What Should a Man Look Out for in a Woman \ Fantastic question!. Though, Relationships are based on choice, but there are a lot to be considered.  Love should not base on physical looks alone, character they say, means beauty. The important things we should look out for in a woman are; character, spiritual status, and health status. There are some characters in women that you can cope with and there are some you couldn't at all, so take note of that. Characters are very hard to adjust because it's like a sign of recognition in one's life. Also it is very compulsory to marry your Spiritual mate if you don't want too much problem/burden on you.  Health status is also important to note to avoid medical problems. The least thing you should ever consider in her is the physical appearance, that deceives a lot. Loves comes in when all these are properly checked and confirmed. **Francis**
Religion \ MERCY PREVAILETH OVER JUDGEMENT \ Truly, mercy prevaileth over judgement. It is said, written and practicalized in the Bible.  Mercy is what we don't merit for, but received instead of punishment. Nothing supers God's mercy and humans are never qualified for it, it is the will of God. That's why we say, our God is unquestionable and unpredictable.  In the book of Roman 9 vs 15;  the Lord said unto Moses, "I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion". If not for God's mercy over our life, we all would have been dead because of our terrible sins, we would have been perish with our deeds. God is a merciful God, that irrespective of our sins, he is still there for us. You are alive today, not by your power but by mercy. So therefore, in all your request in life, always ask for God's mercy over your life. **Francis**
Religion \ Live a Godly life \ When you are not being called an SU, pastor, mummy G.o, sister/brother in the Lord, you haven't live a Godly life. Living a Godly life does not mean being too religious, it means balancing each sides. Dress moderately, be socialize ( but no in a negative way), maintain your dignity, be spiritually empowered and always maintain the fruit of the spirit ( which consists of love, forgiveness, honesty, holiness, meekness, patience, and so on..) Living a Godly life means living as an example to others. Your behaviors and characters must impact life positively. **Francis**
Family/Parenting \ Separation of Room \ Separate room! Building so many rooms does not evolve separation. It becomes separate room when a couple choose to sleep in different rooms.  Good couples are meant to sleep together in a room, while other rooms are just a preservation, no matter how many it is. Some are preserved for children while some are used for guest rooms. Some couples do take advantage of this when there are misunderstandings between them, and that is a good means of keeping malice for each other. This reduces the level of love present between the couple, and this is thereby promoting the risk of divorce or breakup between them. Couples sleeping in a separate room only gives room for the devil to take over the marriage.  As a woman, when you fail to keep your husband closer, you are selling him out to other women, and same goes to men. To even avoid the wrath of God, couples must stay and sleep together. **Francis**
Religion \ SPIRITUAL PERCEPTION \ Having spiritual perspective is best thing one can develop in this life. Sometimes we do pray and discover that our prayer are not answered, it is because we are praying in the wrong way, we only pray considering our physical situation, we fail to look at it in a spiritual way; is it really what God want for me?, Am I on the right track?.  Most of us are choosing our careers bu neglecting the spiritual perspective about it.  Also we choose our future partners by wrong perspective, which is very dangerous. This world is spiritual and in order to live in it, we must be spiritually sound. In life, we must always think in spirit not in flesh, because the thought of men is far different from the thought of God, God works in the spirit while men work in flesh.  Notwithstanding, we must be similar to God in our thinking for easy breakthrough. **Francis**
Religion \ ONE IS A DEVIL \ I totally disagree with you in that area. Truly there lives an enemy in a group or organization, but the story of Judas Iscariot was made to fulfill the word of God. Judas Iscariot was chosen by God to fulfill the mission of Jesus Christ. Jesus has already knew that he would be betrayed by him, but Judas Iscariot himself is not aware of this from the beginning, he didn't know he was the enemy, even when Jesus was revealing the secret in parables, none understand him. The devil cease this opportunity not knowing he is just contributing to the fulfillment of the word.  Some devils are planted on your way just to fulfill destiny, while some are made to destroy you.  You can't really figure out the enemy in your group because they are more closer to you, they will always disguise. What you need to do is to pray against them, and they shall be taken away. not by confronting them physically. **Francis**
Diaries \ Pondering on the Mystery of Life \ Mystery of life!! The lesson I learnt about life is to keep going even in bad times, I learn not to espair even when my world is falling apart. Life is just a lesson taken aback with it mysteries.  I don't really believe in supernatural world, witches or vampire but I think they do exist. They are just in some part of the world that can be seen with spiritual eyes. Witches don't go about in day time, they hid their selves at night to do evil things. Inorder not to be their prey, one must be spiritual guilded. And also they say; the battle that should be fought in the afternoon shall not take place in the night. Don't be carried away by the mystery of this world, don't categories all warfare as supernatural. Don't get bitten by a rat and be devoured by a lion. That is, never expose yourself to the world because of the little problem which can be solved physically. **Francis**
Love-Stories \ WHERE DID YOU BELONGS TO \ Where exactly did you belong to?? Revelation 3vs 16 says;"So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of My mouth". God also commanded that, "thou shall not worship any other god except me". Some pastors today are not called by God, instead they call God, that is why they went ahead to receive power from the devil for fake miracles. Many people who are ignorant of this will fall for their tricks. God does not call his own to suffer, neither does he call them without power and holy spirit to back it up. If your calling or your believe is Devine, no need for you running up and down. Some loose faith in God because they lack patience, in such a way that they could not withstand the difficulties they are facing, and thereby seeking help from other gods. Some are the result of being influenced while some are wrong advices.  Know your stand. **Francis**
Literature/Writing \ DESTINY. \ Destiny, destiny, destiny!!. Destiny can never be change nor destroy, it can only be delay. We have so many things that delay destiny; *Selfish interest: this is when you are being carried away by what is trending, what people want for you, or what you want to achieve rather than fulfilling destiny.  * Devil's deeds: Delay of fulfilment of destiny can be caused by the devil. Your carelessness and inability to pray may give room for the devil to penetrate, dominate, and manipulate your life, thereby causing a delay in your destiny. *Sin: This is a dangerous hindrance to your life. Sin can deprive you from reaching your destination. If you fail to walk in the way devinly designed for you, you will just be working in vain.  You can read and become a graduate but if you fail to fulfill destiny, you haven't achieve anything. **Francis**
Religion \ WHO CAN BATTLE WITH JEHOVAH \ Who can fight the Lord, or who can battle with him, in heaven and on Earth?..there is no one. So that's why I say, my problem is small before my God. I know my war is too small for my God to handle.  I may be small, but he who lives in me is greater than he than lives in the world. I times of trouble, I will say the Lord is my refuge and fortress, my God, in him will I put my trust. Surely, he shall deliver me from the snare of the Fowler and from the noisome pestilence. I shall tread upon lions cobra  under my feet,. because the Lord is my strength. My God is greater than the greatest man in this world. He enthrone and dethrone Kings.., tell me who is like unto thee. He is unquestionable. No one can face him and ask him the reason behind his doings. No one can ever know his source of power. No one can battle with Jehovah!!. **Francis**
Religion \ JESUS!!! \ Ask me who is Jesus, and I will tell you things he has done for me...tell me why I love him, and I will tell you how much he love me when have not met him at all...he is the one that finds me when I go astray, he is the one that bath me in his blood, and I know, my redemption is so precious. Jesus, the son of God, came to this world as a human being, live, and die as a human, but doing the work of the spirit. He was born and raised from a poor family, he was given birth to in a lowly manner( which is a good example for us). His mission is save we sinners, to rescue us from our deadly sins.  Through Jesus Christ, we can move mountains, because with him all things are possible.  Jesus says; " I am the way, the truth and life, no one comes to the father except through me". We sing and pray to God in the name of our Lord, Jesus Christ. **Francis**
Education \ Can You Marry An Albino \ Of course I can if I truly love her. I don't really understand what people are saying about the ablinos, are they not human being?, Or are you saying that God made a mistake in creating them?. Albino or not, you will surely get married to someone. Someone is created specially for you to race this journey of life.  I have seen so many ablinos getting married happily with a responsible and good looking man/woman. Truly ablinos are not recognize much in this country, even it is an abomination in some states to give birth to ablino, because they think they bring bad luck, but  I want you to understand that what God has designed in someone's life, no one can change it.  If it is the will of God for me to marry abino, definitely I will go for it, because I know that God can never mislead me. Sincerely, I can not deliberately date an abino but it is very important to obey God. **Francis**
Diaries \ Healthy people, healthy relationships. \ Two unhealthy people can never make a healthy relationship. In physics, Like charges will repel, while unlike charges will attract, but it is not so in mathematics; Two negatives work together to produce positive result, it is because they have the same characters and should understand each other. when positive and negative come together, there is always disharmony/disunity and therefore, will bring out negative result. That is definitely the reason why mathematics has not being real, I so much dislike it. Relationship becomes real when viewed in the area of physics; it is not possible that two people who thinks negatively about relationship will make things to work out positively. No one to correct the other..it is no different from walking in path of destruction. When positive and negative come together, one can easily correct/change another for good. **Francis**
Romance \ WOULD YOU TAKE $1B NOT TO HAVE SEX EVER AGAIN? \ This is a situation where one has to choose between life and death.that is; life means living and performing, while death means living and not performing (unrecognized, valueless). The Bible says, "Go into the world and multiple", not go into the world and make money. Also it says; " A tree without no fruit shall be caught down". That means our coming to this world must be fruitfull, both physically and spiritually.  Now are talking about the spiritual aspect. you are offered billions not to have sex anymore, the question is, are they going to take your man/ womanhood away from you?, If it is so, there is no difference in doing money ritual. But if they will be monitoring you up and down, bro and sis, you are absolutely living a shameful and uncomfortable world.  Money, money, money!. It will surely finish one day and after that, you becomes useless, to people and even to yourself.  Men, if I should ask you, what is the real man in you?.. of course it's your dick. Also if I should ask, can you really do without sex???. Women can still hold themselves when it comes to sex but men!!. Never. All what you are saying is just a slip of tongue.  Money don't solve every problem and also it's not absolutely used as a means of exchange. You said you will collect the money and will go and adopt a child, is that child yours. Ohh this can only be profitable for 60 years of age and above. Even at that age, you are still active. Why will I sell my life and happiness all because of money, not possible. I rather live poor than not to be able to have sex again. **Francis**